Picking the perfect outfit for your engagement shoot or couple session can feel overwhelming. As a South African wedding photographer and videographer we’ve worked with countless couples who feel unsure about what to wear, how to coordinate with their partner, or how to match the setting.
While the typical advice is “wear something you’re comfortable in,” I find that a bit vague—after all, I’m comfy in pajamas, but I wouldn’t wear them to a photo shoot! So if you’re planning a session with a Pretoria photographer, here are practical, experience-based tips to help you choose outfits that look amazing in photos.
1. Co-ordinate, don’t match
It’s tempting to wear matching outfits—like the classic white tees and jeans combo—but this can fall flat in photos. Instead, aim for coordinated looks with a cohesive colour palette. Matching too closely removes contrast between you and your partner, making the images look less dynamic.
Tips for Colour Coordination:
- Use different shades of the same colour: One partner wears light blue, the other navy.
- Pull colours from a print: If one of you wears a patterned item, use the colours in that print to guide the rest of the outfit choices.
This strategy creates depth, interest, and cohesion without making you look like twins.
2. Choosing the Right Colours
As a Pretoria photographer, I often recommend couples stick to neutral tones—cream, beige, black, white, navy. These colours are timeless and don’t draw attention away from you.
That said, if you love colour, opt for:
- Pastels (like soft pinks, powder blues)
- Jewel tones (emerald, burgundy, deep teal)
Avoid overly bright or neon colours—they can reflect onto your skin and alter the tone of your photos.
3. Don’t Fear Prints—Just Use Them Wisely
Prints can absolutely work, especially if used sparingly. My advice:
- Stick to small, simple prints: Think florals, stripes, or checks.
- Only one person should wear a print—this prevents the look from becoming too busy.
- Use the print as a base for colour coordination.
This adds visual interest without overwhelming the photo.
4. Dress for the Location
Your outfit should not only reflect your personal style but also suit the location of the shoot. As a South African wedding photographer, I know how diverse our scenery can be—from bushveld to cityscapes, to coastal cliffs.
Outfit Tips by Setting:
- Winter bushveld: Avoid browns/beiges that blend in; try cream, rust, or jewel tones instead.
- Green summer fields: Skip green clothing to avoid blending; opt for white, blush, or denim tones.
- Urban locations: Sleek, bold outfits and monochrome styles can look amazing.
Always consider the terrain too—comfortable shoes may be needed if walking is involved!
5. Play with Texture
If you're going for a minimalist or monochromatic look, texture is your best friend. Add variety with:
- Flowing fabrics like chiffon or linen
- Chunky knits or soft wool
- Layering pieces—jackets, scarves, belts
This keeps your outfit visually interesting, even if your colour choices are simple.
6. Wear What Makes You Feel Like You
Ultimately, what you wear should reflect your personality and relationship. Style is subjective, and the best photos come when you feel confident, authentic, and relaxed.
Pinterest is a great starting point for outfit ideas, but don’t hesitate to reach out to your photographer for advice—we’re here to help you look and feel your best.
I love assisting my couples in choosing the perfect look for their shoot, whether it's styling tips, outfit feedback, or creating a mood board. If you're booking with a South African wedding photographer, don’t be afraid to ask for help!
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